5 COMPATIBILITY REPORT FOR MARY AND BEN toward Ben. Ben could feel stifled, or let down, but also may sense the practical and supportive nature of Mary, who is helpful in keeping partnership progress toward shared goals and objectives on track. You may be put off by a feeling that your partner is too closed, or a feeling of emotional restriction, but you do well when you focus on shared objectives. The sign and house position of the Moon and Saturn in each partner's chart will more closely indicate the area of shared interaction. It will be helpful if you try to move beyond any fears you may have regarding intimacy, which can leave you or your partner feeling left out, lonely or undesirable, and do some work on yourselves. You may accomplish much regarding your own inner development through these interactions with each other. Ben's Uranus in strong square (within 2.5 degrees) with Mary's Moon The planetary energies conflict; internal and creative tensions bring rich rewards through effort over time. This aspect, of the Moon in square with partner's Uranus, indicates a partnership based on mutual interests, friendship, and unique appreciation of individuality, although there also can be emotional upsets, unexpected turns of feeling, or disregard for the other's point of view. The unconventional, indiscreet or inconsiderate actions of Ben may go against the grain of Mary, or may grow into emotional disconnects between you. Change definitely comes about in your life as a result of this partnership. Adaptability is required, and also the awareness of your separate interests. In a romantic context, you may find an instantaneous and almost magnetic attraction between you, a strong pull towards getting together quickly and intimately, but this aspect may also indicate some exasperating distancing, or aloof feelings between you, or imbalance of emotion. You may feel not at all the same, or perhaps disregard the other's feelings, in what may turn out to be an unusual romance in terms of environment or styles. Domestic life between you may be unsettled and outside influences or the friction of career direction versus home life may separate you. You can withstand these pressures when an allowing and mature understanding is present between you. The at times irascible nature of your interaction may need some constructive realignment, or perhaps one partner's moodiness may need to be given more freedom. Refreshing personality traits and good humor between you provides a helpful source of resolution, serving to enliven you with a sense of joy in your feelings for each other. Ben's Neptune in quintile (within 0.7 degrees) with Mary's Moon and Ben's Moon in strong sextile (within 2.0 degrees) with Mary's Neptune.
6 COMPATIBILITY REPORT FOR MARY AND BEN Since your and your partner's complementary planets follow the same pattern, this aspect is greatly emphasized in your reading. Pay special attention to the following material! The planetary energies flow together, open into new possibilities, new connections. This aspect, of the Moon in flowing relation with partner's Neptune, represents a relationship of great sensitivity and mutual rapport. The Moon and Neptune are indicators of nurturing and sharing, although in different ways, and both of you will give a great deal of support and encouragement to the other, in a partnership based on spiritual intuition, mutual sharing, and a sense of loyal devotion to each other. Also included in your relationship is shared creativity in the arts, or music, perhaps caring for the sick and elderly, or for other disadvantaged groups. In a romantic context, this aspect indicates a spiritual love, with sympathy and compassion between you, feeling strongly supportive of each other in creative or artistic ways. This flows like water, with mutual understanding and sensitive receptivity to each other's moods. You may feel a genuine empathy between you, an intuitive telepathic connection with each other, and you may find psychic receptivity to others as well, such as friends and family. When working together, you may also find yourselves to be more forgiving and compassionate toward the world at large, more willing to do things for other people. You may also encounter a tendency to fantasize or live in a world of illusions, and might do well to set some limits for yourselves in this regard. But limits arising out of what you yourselves feel is right; not what others demand of you. Together, you are likely to find areas of service to others, such as in spiritual institutions, or with the arts and music. Ben's Moon in strong conjunction (within 2.8 degrees) with Mary's Pluto The strongest blend of the energies represented by these two planets. With this aspect, of the Moon in conjunction or opposition with partner's Pluto, there is a dark side to your relationship. You are coming together to do some serious healing, and you can expect intense emotions and the exposing of your most cherished and unknown secrets through this relationship, perhaps unknown even to your conscious mind. There may be a feeling of being together for some karmic purpose. Together you are both working toward an important process of change and emotional fulfillment, with Ben the one who does most of the transforming, while Mary provides the catalytic energy for change. In a romantic context, this aspect symbolizes a powerful sexual contact between you, with passion to explore each other's mysteries, and drive to higher purpose as well. The investigation into the depths of your being that this relationship initiates is worth the effort to dig down, the pain of being exposed. There is a serious soul-