9 COMPATIBILITY REPORT FOR MARY AND BEN complaint. Or there may be too much rush and busyness to make the relationship truly work; as short-term considerations replace long-term. Tact and control is required, in order to reason your way into achievement by striking a good balance between willful behavior and a truly enlightened consideration of your partner's viewpoint. Ben's Saturn in inconjunct (within 1.7 degrees) with Mary's Mercury and Ben's Mercury in square (within 3.2 degrees) with Mary's Saturn. Since your and your partner's complementary planets follow the same pattern, this aspect is greatly emphasized in your reading. Pay special attention to the following material! The planetary energies conflict; internal and creative tensions bring rich rewards through effort over time. This aspect, of Mercury in square with partner's Saturn, indicates the potential for restrictions, disputes and perhaps mental disassociation between the partners. You may find that you move in opposite directions. Travel plans are not well supported, or business cooperation is hindered. There may be a tendency for Mary to be critical, discouraging, and apt to judgment. On the plus side, this aspect also reflects necessary restrictions and the awareness of proper boundaries. Ben may learn much from Mary in the course of the relationship. In a romantic context, this aspect may possibly enhance and deepen your connection by providing stability, but there can also be difficulties between you, where one feels belittled or criticized, or has goals that remain unmet. The effect of Mary may be to slow down and present obstacles to the aims and ideas of Ben which can also be undermining to Ben's self-confidence. Growth is possible, but only through shared agreements well thought out. The experience of delays or resistance can build better connections and longer term plans, but this requires spiritual maturity. There are many obstacles to overcome, and there may be health risks, or other challenges to get past, so both partners need discipline to move through it and forge a bond with each other. Ben's Uranus in sesquiquadrate (within 1.1 degrees) with Mary's Mercury and Ben's Mercury in trine (within 3.6 degrees) with Mary's Uranus. Since your and your partner's complementary planets follow the same pattern, this aspect is greatly emphasized in your reading. Pay special attention to the following material! The planetary energies conflict in determined subtle tension; control is required. This aspect, of Mercury in minor dynamic relation with partner's Uranus, symbolizes an unusual and perhaps somewhat stressful connection. The unique individualities of the two of you ignite into mental gymnastics, and
10 COMPATIBILITY REPORT FOR MARY AND BEN stimulate a vital exchange of ideas between you. This aspect indicates for your partnership the ability to travel and work together, especially in science or technology, also to understand and work with humanitarian or cultural perspectives. You may also encounter wild or erratic experiences with each other, or simply not always be able to connect. Communications can break down, even though you both are willing. Mental viewpoints can alter, which can be stimulating or merely irritating. On the bright side, you may well explore wide ranging activity and new avenues of purpose together. There is an awakening of the mind brought about by this partnership, and stimulation for the individual uniqueness of each of you. In a romantic relationship, the mental stimulation of your connection ensures that the wit and sparkle of interesting conversation flows between you. This aspect reveals a spiritual and futureoriented vibration that enhances your relationship. Be aware however that all this stimulation may also be irritating or upsetting to one of the partners. Together, you are likely to enliven others with your gifts and understanding. Ben's Neptune in strong trine (within 1.3 degrees) with Mary's Mercury The planetary energies flow smoothly; the connection is easy and beneficial. This aspect, of Mercury in flowing relation with partner's Neptune, inspires and spiritualizes your relationship. Sharing discoveries in music or the arts may well provide encouragement, inspiration and support for each other. Telepathy and intuition, imagination and sympathy are part of your partnership make-up. It may be that Ben idealizes the intellectual accomplishments of Mary. In a romantic context, this aspect inclines towards dream sharing, telepathy, feeling of empathy, sensitivity, and artistic brilliance together, or shared by one to the other. You will enjoy spiritual vitality in your relationship, combining intuition and mind, and also sympathetic support for each other. Fantasy may play a part in your shared experience. You may well find work in the arts, or in hospitals, or other institutions of service together. In terms of personal transformation, movement is possible where Mary works into a more creative or spiritual direction, while Ben, who may be more the dreamer in the relationship, becomes more logical and decisive through the partnership interaction. Together, your ability to serve and give to each other and to others is enhanced. Ben's Pluto in strong opposition (within 0.7 degrees) with Mary's Mercury The planetary energies are polarized; outer events stimulate their interaction; integration is the challenge.